What To Do After Getting Married

Congratulations! You just got married and now you are trying to figure out what the heck you are supposed to do now. This guide's purpose is to do just that, to help you figure out the next steps to complete after getting married. We've got it all covered for you, so keep reading to know what you and your spouse should do next!

1. Celebrate (Don’t Rush Back to Reality)

The first, and most important, step to complete after getting married is to celebrate! You just got married, so making sure to spend a lot of time celebrating is very important to this phase of your life. This is an experience you will cherish for years, so celebrate, enjoy being newlyweds, and take your time before starting any of these other steps.

Ideas:

Take a few days off if possible.
Avoid checking work emails immediately.
Soak in the “just married” feeling.
Read your vows again together.
Look through a few sneak peek photos.

Weddings are so fun, and that fun doesn't need to end after the reception is over. Continue that fun and celebrate being married!

2. Send Thank You Notes

This is one of the first practical steps, although it may be the most time consuming one. Depending on how many people gave you gifts and came to your wedding, you may have a lot of thank you notes to write. My advice to you would be to try and finish writing thank you notes as soon as you can. Getting this step completed will help all the other steps seem a lot more enjoyable and fun.

Some more tips"

Start within 2–3 weeks.
Divide the list with your spouse.
Mention the specific gift.
Handwritten feels more personal.

3. Handle the Legal Name Change (If Applicable)

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Include:

Get certified marriage certificates.
Update Social Security.
Update driver’s license.
Change bank accounts.
Update passport.
Change insurance policies.

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4. Merge Finances (If You Haven’t Already)

If you haven't already, we suggest you merge your finances with your new spouse. This is important because it really sets up your marriage financially going forward.

Things to consider:

Opening a joint account (if desired).
Discussing spending styles.
Creating a monthly budget.
Deciding who pays which bills.
Reviewing debt.

We encourage:

Transparency early.
Having calm, scheduled money talks.

Financial discussions aren't always the most "fun" but it is 100% necessary to set you and your spouse up for success!

5. Organize Wedding Photos & Keepsakes

Something super important to consider doing after your wedding is to organize your wedding keepsakes like photos and videos. This will be a lot easier to do right after you get married. If you wait to do this until long after you are married, then you will forget and put it off, ending in it possibly never getting done.

Ideas:

Back up digital photos.
Order an album.
Preserve bouquet.
Frame a favorite wedding photo.
Store dress properly.

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6. Write Down What You Learned During Engagement

One thing that I wish I did after my wedding was write down things I learned throughout the wedding process. This is a great idea because its something physical you can share with your future children to help them during their own wedding journey.

Suggestions:

Reflect on wedding planning.
Talk about communication wins.
Identify stress triggers.
Discuss what worked well as a team.

This turns the article from logistical to relational.

This is a super small yet significant step that every bride and groom should be doing.

7. Set Marriage Goals

Setting marriage goals is so important for newlyweds. This really sets up your marriage well and prepares the both of you for life as a couple.

Ideas:

Monthly date nights.
Financial savings goals.
Travel plans.
Faith or personal growth goals.
Career support conversations.

8. Create New Traditions

This is great for any engagement. Starting new traditions give you and your spouse, and your future children, to create something they can be proud of. Carrying on traditions and making new ones is a beautiful way to start your new family.

Examples:

Weekly pizza night.
Sunday morning coffee ritual.
Annual anniversary trip.
Monthly check-in conversations.
Hosting friends for dinner.

9. Decorate Your Shared Space

Something every new couple should do is decorate your space together. Even if you have lived with each other for several years, or if you haven't lived with each other up till this point, decorate your new space together. This will help both of you feel at home and feel as if you are creating something new together.

Ideas:

Combine decor styles.
Create a wedding photo wall.
Set up a shared calendar.
Create a cozy newlywed corner.

10. Adjust to Newlywed Life

A step that nobody talks about after your married is to make sure you are leaving time to adjust to newlywed life. Being married is so fun but it can also be very overwhelming and new. Make sure you take time to process this new step in your life.

Some things to focus on:

Living together adjustments.
Conflict styles.
Communication habits.
Learning daily rhythms.
Giving each other grace.

11. Plan Your First Year of Marriage

One step that is so fun to do as a newlywed couples is to plan your first year of marriage. Make a list of everything you want to do and plan when you are going to do each thing.

You could include:

Schedule intentional time together.
Protect your marriage from overcommitment.
Prioritize date nights.
Continue learning about each other.
Planning trips together.

12. What NOT to Do After Getting Married

There are some things you shouldn't do after getting married, and here are some of those ideas:

Don’t neglect communication.
Don’t overspend post-wedding.
Don’t compare your marriage to others.
Don’t stop dating each other.
Don’t assume everything “just works.”

Conclusion:

The time after your wedding day is some of the most fun, exciting, and important times of your life. Make sure you spend your time wisely; get the things done you need to, and enjoy yourself as well. Good luck!